I am often asked by a party to a divorce action if the other party can be forced to leave the marital residence. My usual response is that it can be done under the appropriate circumstances. Exclusive use and occupancy of the marital residence may be awarded during the pendency of a divorce action upon a showing that a spouse’s presence has caused domestic strife and/or that the spouse has voluntarily established an alternative residence. See, Domestic Relations Law §234; Annexstein v. Annexstein, 202 A.D.2d 1062 (4th Dept. 1994). The standard for granting exclusive possession is a flexible one and may include any circumstance warranting judicial intervention. See, Grogg v. Grogg, 152 A.D.2d 802 (3rd Dept. 1989) (The presence of marital strife can be a recognized standard for an award of exclusive possession). In I.Q. v. A.Q., 228 A.D.2d 301 (1st Dept. 1996), where there was no dispute of a significant potential for strife should the defendant return, and no genuine issue raised that defendant’s exclusion from the marital residence would cause him more than minimal disruption, the motion court’s award of temporary exclusive possession, without a hearing, was a proper exercise of discretion. Id.
Similarly, in Iuliano v. Iuliano, 30 A.D.3d 737 (3rd Dept. 2006), testimony clearly demonstrated the existence of marital strife between the parties requiring an award of exclusive possession to ensure personal safety of the parties. Given the disparate financial circumstances of the parties, the award of exclusive possession to the defendant was deemed to be proper. Id. In Mitzner v. Mitzner, 228 A.D.2d 483 (2nd Dept. 1996), the Supreme Court was found to have properly awarded the defendant temporary exclusive possession of the marital residence, given the domestic strife caused by the plaintiff’s presence in the home and the fact that he had voluntarily established an alternative residence. Id. See, also, Block v. Block, 245 A.D.2d 153 (1st Dept. 1997) (In light of the husband’s admission that due to marital strife, he voluntarily vacated the marital residence shortly after signing a one-year sub-lease for an apartment, and the unrebutted expert evidence concerning the impact of the domestic strife on the wife prior to the husband’s departure and the potential harm to the wife and children if the husband returned, the motion court erred in not granting the wife’s cross-motion for exclusive occupancy of the marital residence and in granting the husband’s motion for complete access thereto).
If the presence of one party has caused significant domestic strife in the marital residence and that party has sufficient means to secure an alternate residence, the other party may be granted exclusive use and occupancy of the marital residence. During a divorce, exclusive possession is one of the most important tools available to a divorce lawyer to improve the client’s position and to force the other party to establish a separate household. Grant of exclusive possession is likely to have significant consequences with respect to custody, visitation, temporary maintenance, and other issues. Since the grant of exclusive possession under Domestic Relations Law §234 is within the court’s discretion, it is difficult to have it overturned on appeal.